This essay reflects on desire, vocation, and the search for a significant Other, not as a romantic ideal but as a structural need for recognition, continuity, and shared judgement. Drawing on lived experience and on the 2001 RTBF film C’est mieux la vie quand on est grand, it explores forms of love that organise life rather than console it: relationships that arise without design, endure disappointment, and aim not at permanence but at growth and eventual release. Meaning, it argues, is not found in depth alone, nor guaranteed by intensity, but emerges slowly through constraint, responsibility, and return.
A reflection on parenting, morality, and the teaching of Jesus — showing how the true measure of life lies not in worldly success but in moral fruitfulness. Wealth and compassion need not be opposed, but reconciled through the law written in the heart.
A reflective essay on how early patterns of love and fear shape adult life. From Hemingway and D. H. Lawrence to the words of Jesus, it explores how we learn courage, how dependence becomes maturity, and how the “kingdom of heaven within” points to self-knowledge rather than belief.